I was divorced after 3 kids and 25 yrs. of marriage. Re-married and widowered after 6 yrs. married to my third for 15 wonderful yrs. come Jan. Money can be a huge source of stress that can tear a marriage apart. I worked 3 jobs for 25 yrs. to give my wife and kids the best. In return, I got a divorce and 3 kids that think I'm an ass-hat. My current step-children and step-grandchildren treat me better than my own. Life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what your gonna get(Forest Gump).