One of those bring-it-home stories worthy of sharing.

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    One of those bring-it-home stories worthy of sharing.

    A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed that as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

    Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.

    In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She then pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.
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    Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, "Tell me, what do you see?"

    "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

    She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

    The granddaughter then asked, "What does it mean, Grandmother?"

    Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity -- boiling water -- but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

    "Which are you?" she asked her granddaughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"

    Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity? Do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

    Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

    Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor of your life. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate to another level?

    How do you handle adversity? Are you changed by your surroundings or do you bring life, flavor, to them?

    ARE YOU A CARROT, AN EGG, OR A COFFEE BEAN?
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    Thank you for that.
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    Very good.
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    Nice.

    Time to brew a new "cuppa."
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    Interesting story, but inquiring minds want to know. What was the granddaughter wearing? Was she blonde, brunette, redhead? How old is Gramma?

    These could be pertinent facts to the retelling of the story.
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    I'm glad I took the time to read this. It made me realize that I am all too often an egg...

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    Unfortunately people will just think I'm crazy when I yell "I am a coffee bean!" over and over again in the face of adversity, but that's a great story.
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    Very cool. I may have to steal that.

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    This came at the right time for me and I say thank you. I'm set to get a pacemaker on the 22s of this month or I may not make it to the end of the year because of heart damage. So I ask the Doc can I charge my cell when I get this thing ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by shadowwalker View Post
    This came at the right time for me and I say thank you. I'm set to get a pacemaker on the 22s of this month or I may not make it to the end of the year because of heart damage. So I ask the Doc can I charge my cell when I get this thing ?
    Praying for strength, wisdom and peace for you.
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    Great story. I would have to say Im somewhere between an egg and a coffe bean. If theres such a thing.

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    I like the story, but now have a hankering for coffee and egg salad

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    Quote Originally Posted by shadowwalker View Post
    This came at the right time for me and I say thank you. I'm set to get a pacemaker on the 22s of this month or I may not make it to the end of the year because of heart damage. So I ask the Doc can I charge my cell when I get this thing ?
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    love it! Thanks.


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    Quote Originally Posted by shadowwalker View Post
    This came at the right time for me and I say thank you. I'm set to get a pacemaker on the 22s of this month or I may not make it to the end of the year because of heart damage. So I ask the Doc can I charge my cell when I get this thing ?
    Praying for you.
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