Can it get any worse

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    Can it get any worse

    Hi guys and gals of D.C. I just recently lost my wife of 29 years to suicide. And now my dad has lost a years battle with cancer. It has been a double wammy for me and its been a tough road. I was expecting my dads battle with the bad c word. But my wife taking her own life. Im really having a hard time with it. Im sorry to rant and vent here to you guys. But just asking to keep us in your thoughts and prayers to help get us through these tough times would be greatly appreciated. Again sorry for venting to you all. But there is a great bunch of folks here and I feel Im part of a great family here on this forum. Thanks for takin the time to read this and God Bless you all.

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    I've kept you in my prayers since you told us about your wife. Sorry about your father. Hang in there, brother.
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    Four lines hardly constitutes a rant, and even if it was, I don't think anyone would begrudge you. I lost many in a short period a few years back, and can appreciate how tough it is. Best thoughts, keep paddling.
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    I am so very sorry to hear this.

    Continued prayers for you and yours.
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    Prayers that you and your family find peace. Hang in there Sixgun.
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    Will do, man. I can't imagine now tough things are for you right now. Stay strong.

    And you sure don't have to apologize. We've all lost somebody. If anything, your sharing your story with us reminds us to appreciate our own loved ones, both those gone and those still with us, and that can't be a bad thing.
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    I consider the people on this forum to be friends, maybe even family. We're here for you. Life can seem terrible at times but know that you have the ability to get through those times and we'll be here to lend an ear when you need to talk.
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    Keeping you and yours in my thoughts.
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    A very tragic double loss that you are suffering through. Stay Strong.
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    I'm so sorry sixgun. How terrible to lose either of them. You and your family will be in my prayers that God will help you find some peace in your life.
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    You continue to be in our prayers. May the good Lord give you the strength to overcome this trial. Don't you dare worry about this "rant", you are entitled.
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    Sixgun, sorry for your loss. I've read somewhere that God doesn't burden a person with a struggle or an obstacle that he can't handle. In other words, we are supposed to be strong enough to handle anything that comes our way! So know that you have the strength to survive this current period. Plus, you have your Guardian Angels keeping an eye over you. You can get through this!
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    An unimaginable burden. I hope you can somehow seek and find some manner of peace in The Lord. You and your family will be in my prayers. If there's anything I can do to help you in any way, please feel free to PM me.
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    Actually, you probably you don't need that right now, not to mention forum rules. I *do* have stuff to say; PM me if/when you're interested.

    But for now, let me tell you that 1) I can't imagine the hurt you're going through; 2) I care; and 3) I will certainly be praying. And if you'll tolerate a little bit of religious talk, the one I'm praying to has been through pretty rough times himself, he understands, he cares, and he offers comfort.

    Sad for your losses...

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