Some bad news...

Some bad news...

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    Unhappy Some bad news...

    Well, "our" pregnancy was short lived, Lima had a miscarriage on Friday morning.

    We're OK, we know it was just natures way and had nothing to do with something we did or didn't do. We were pretty torn up at first as this was our first try at starting a family, but we've pulled through OK.

    No worries, we'll be trying again.


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    JD & Lima,

    I have never been through this, so I won't pretend to understand how y'all feel. Just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. If there's anything I (we) can do or you just need to vent, I'm as close as a PM.

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    JD & Lima,

    My wife and I have been through this. It is, at best, disappointing, and, at worst, devastating.

    Take some time to process, talk, pray, cry, laugh, whatever comes.
    Use any resources you think you may need. You will get through it. Some days may just be tougher than others.

    God bless.
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    I'm so sorry to hear this JD. Our first child was stillborn. It's heartbreaking, but we're now the proud parents of a 3 month old baby girl. Peace be with you.
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    My heartfelt condolences to you and Lima. You are in my prayers.

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    I feared the worst when I saw her signature was changed. My thoughts and prayers go out to you both. Find strength in God and each other and you will pull through.
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    Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
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    Thoughts and prayers are with y'all.

    And on the bright side, now is the best time to try again. Its happened to more than one couple that we know.
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    Find the strength you both will need to get through this in each other. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. My thoughts and prayers will be for you.


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    God kids , Words cannot express how sad i am for you . I know just where you guys are as the wife and i suffered thro 7 miscarriages to get our two kids . Loosing a child is never easy or ok , but i came to the conclusion that its far better to miscarry early than to have problems resulting in tragedy later . Hang in there , and give Lima a big hug and kiss on the forehead from all of us secure in the knowledge that all things come to pass , and this too shall .
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    You will both be our family's prayers tonight. Be there for each other, love each other, support each other and keep trying when you are ready again. When the time is right and you have a family, the joy will be worth the pain.
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    i love you guys, you are in my prayers
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    my heart and thoughts go out to the both of you. my lady had two before we had our daughter. i know these things just happen, and it's just nature, but that doesn't make it hurt any less.

    be strong.

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    Very, very sorry to hear this. Thoughts, wishes and prayers are with you both.

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    Lima & JD: I wish I could be there and give you guys the biggest hug I could give. We don't know you but we all deeply care and feel the loss because you have grown to be our extended cyberfamily.
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