If he's got money for smokes he doesn't need my help
This is a discussion on got put in my place, feel kinda dumb within the Carry & Defensive Scenarios forums, part of the Defensive Carry Discussions category; If he's got money for smokes he doesn't need my help...
If he's got money for smokes he doesn't need my help
Just out of curiosity....If the guy did engage you and you had a non lethal retaliation via a pepper spray + beating, or a knife, or a baton and beat him silly, would be the next step? call the police? walk away?
Anytime you have to use force of any kind, you should notify LEO's. This will at least get your side of the incident documented, because you can be sure that the person you used the force on will be calling them.
As the youngest child in a big family my father told me something that seems to apply to everything.
He said " Son take what you got left and do the best that you can with it."
I am the father of 7 children and I now know the value of his wisdom. Seems like that's exactly what you did Great call!
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"The gun is the great equalizer... For it is the gun, that allows the meek to repel the monsters; Whom are bigger, stronger and without conscience, prey on those who without one, would surely perish."
I'm glad you and, your friends were not harmed. I always hate the fact that one of our members are put in bad situations. You did the right thing I wonder why this guy acted like he did? Oh well, I'm just glad all worked out to your advantage.
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I was with you until I read this:
Fortune favors the bold.
Freedom doesn't mean safe, it means free.
The thing about "defense" is that it has practically nothing to do with guns. (As passed on by CCW9MM)
I gotta throw a quick jab in there for having to move into condition yellow.... lol thats where we are supposed to live my friend!
(Im just giving you a hard time - I have a hard time staying in yellow all the time as well....)
"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing."
I once worked as a bouncer at a SoCal nightclub and it took me (195 lbs--in solid shape) and my larger partner (250 lbs--in even better shape) to subdue a 160-ish lb. Pillsbury doughboy high on PCP who'd just bitten off half a customer's ear.
Take that into consideration.
Use every advantage and assume nothing. Just because your adversary looks down and out is no reason to let your guard down. Street peeps often have a reduced sense of pain due to drugs or mental illness.
It doesn't require a weapon to prevail. A clear head and a survival instinct will often do.
Joint holds are also worth knowing against freaked out/drugged out peeps as they can overcome even the most severely out-of-control characters--more than mere punches or stab wounds.
P.S. I have to add that in the OP's scenario--as much as it hurts the man muscle--it might have been best to suck it up and apologize for violating the dude's "space". In the future, the polite thing to do would be to ask for permission to take their photograph. [Hell, that's what you'd do in most 3rd world countries, right?] Then, play it by ear if that doesn't de-escalate the situation.
He that skulks away lives to fight another day (i.e. a real threat).
Don't forget to bow as the chariot passes.
I understand your point. And want to clarify that what I'm doing is perfectly legal and ethically sound. Anybody in a public area is fair game to be photographed, police officers, adults, kids, homeless people, anybody.
Only a very small percentage of people actually have a problem (or voice that opinion to me). Sometimes the opportunity to ask permission isn't there or asking permission before taking the shot will influence how that person is acting. So I typically shoot without asking,but not always. Like anything it depends on the exact situation. If they approach me and ask what I'm up to I'll tell them and show the photos, and hand them a business card with the offer of a free print of the photo I made of them. This is how I generally defuse any situation with "normal" people. This guy was obviously unbalanced and ignoring his insults and crazy talk seemed the best way to go.
I generally don't photograph homeless people, as they're kinda overdone in the photography world, and the photos of them become very repetitive. But occasionally someone will stand out.
I am aware of the risk this may place me in, and accept it as part of the job.
When only cops have guns, it's called a "police state". Love your country, but never trust its government.
-- Robert A. Heinlein.
I would agree with using a telephoto lins (on a pod for stability). In the situation you were in I'd hand the camera off to your friend's wife and you two staying in between her and the BG....... And don't forget to zoom in on the dark corner to get a light reading before you shoot....... Just thought I'd throw that in, armchair photo bug..... Wish you success with your PJ........ Just a thought... but you might bring this up for discussion in your class on the right methods of taking/invading ones space with a camera.... Not meant as a put down, just a practical discussion......
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