Originally Posted by
limatunes
Obviously, you've gotten a lot of responses to this already.
As a woman (5'3" 99.6 lbs) I URGE (beg, plead, whatever) you to try them out on a willing partner. Of course, don't break any fingers and use a spatula or something as a trainer knife, etc, but as someone who has gone to a lot of "women self defense" classes I warn you that a lot of these techniques do not work for all women.
You are obviously a little bigger than me so you might have more success but I literally have had men laugh at me when I try certain techniques.
I am currently taking Krav and thankfully my instructor watches me very carefully and when he sees that something is not working for me he immediately improvises or teaches me something else because there's no point in working a maneuver that isn't going to get you the desired result.. i.e. free of your attacker.
I also agree with others when they say that getting physical (REALLY physical) is a lost art. It really is. You have to think dirty and not be afraid to let your aggression out.. especially if you are up against a physically superior attacker.
For this situation I like knives... specifically a fixed blade knife carried in the belly button region.
What really hasn't been covered (or at least not that I read) is targeting.
So you get that knife out.. yes, you can start hacking and possibly be successful in getting him off of you... but, again, he's going to expect you to respond and in an adrenaline dump situation many people do not realize that they have been cut until they see blood.
If he's holding you from behind he might think you are scratching him and if you aren't cutting anything vital to his hold he will still be able to hold you.
Obviously you don't want to be cutting right in front of your chest. If he decides to slam you down to the front you could easily stab yourself in the chest. If you can get out a knife you should have enough arm movement from the elbow down to reach from side to side. ... Hook the blade into the crease of his elbow, pull (or press, however you want to think of it) down on the knife as hard as you can to put the most pressure on the blade into his skin/arm and then drag it down and out ... if you want you can even saw it back and forth.... it will cut him to the bone.. and with it all of his tendons and muscles he's using to hold onto you.
He will physically be unable to hold on to you.... even if he was so hyped up he didn't feel a single thing. His arm physically will cease to work from the elbow down.
When it comes to knives the most important kind of cut is the functional cut: cutting mechanisms of the body that allow it to function such as muscles and tendons.
Next is blood cuts: cutting an area of major blood supply to get the attacker to bleed out.
Last is cutting just to inflict pain.. Yeah, if what you are doing isn't producing any of the top two results (body mechanical failure or copious loss of blood) then you are potentially in for a long fight because pain is subjective though, of course, it's better than nothing.