Isn't the real question.... would you rather have a bulge, or look good dead ?
If someone is carry their gun where they don't have good access to it in order to preserve their vanity, what's that really worth ?
Don't lose sight of the objective.
There are good conceal carry undershirts, etc that work quite well for women and the gun won't cause bulges where they don't want them. There is conceal clothing also around. I know a woman that carries a 1911 in a undershirt carry, who is quite shapely.... and you would never know the gun is there.