I imagine you've already investigated the Minituck from Crossbreed, but if not, it might be worth a look. It's advertised as being more comfortable for some women, but of course only accepts small handguns. And I don't see many small pistols on your blog, so this may not be an option for you.
I have a Minituck for a PM9 with CT laser, and Supertucks for a SIG P239 and SIGPro 2022. All of these are very comfortable even while driving, but I'm a guy. I'd love to get feedback from ladies using the Minituck. If it's generally good, I may see if my wife wants to try one.