
Originally Posted by
adric22
Okay guys.. I really hate that we've come to the insult fest again.. Let me clear some things up and explain what is wrong with this forum and some of the people on it:
When a person (not just me, I've seen others) comes to this forum and admits a mistake, the response should be something like this:
"Wow, I'm glad you learned your lesson on that. Thanks for posting so that nobody else will make that mistake."
But instead, we get responses like "You are criminally negligent and should have all of your firearms taken away and should be arrested and have your children put in foster care."
And then when I try to explain the circumstances to prove my character, it is assumed that I am trying to deny responsibility. That is just not the case. I'm trying to bring people's mind at ease that I am actually very safety minded in my use of firearms and that I have readily and repeatedly admitted my mistakes, learned from them, and taken steps to make sure it will not happen again. I only go into this because I do not want my entire reputation based on a 15-second segment of my life. Everybody has done something stupid at one point or another, how would you like your entire life to be judged by that one stupid thing? That is what happens on this board. On other boards I'm on, people start to get to know one another and develop friendships. That doesn't seem to happen around here. It is more like the lunchroom of a junior highschool with different clicks of immature kids.
So when I posted this original post about the sweaty hands, I was actually hoping to help somebody else who might be also carrying unchambered to rethink their decision or at least to test if they can chamber their gun with sweaty or otherwise wet hands. The response I should have gotten was, "Thanks for that information, I'm glad you found out about that and shared with us." Instead I get responses like, "you are an idiot for carrying a gun unchambered, we told you so, now you can eat crow."
The whole insult-fest over carrying unchambered is mystifying to me. If I carry an unchambered gun and by some freak chance I get in a situation that I loose my life over because I couldn't defend myself, then who is hurt? Any of you guys? No, I have to live with the consequences of my choice. Yet, the replies I receive are so condemning you would think I posted that I like to drive down the highway and randomly shoot off rounds out of my window. In such a case, it would make sense to condemn the person because their choice is hurting other people. So one might think that everybody here really just cares so much about me and my personal safety. But lets face it, I am pretty sure half of the people on here would be happy to see me killed in some incident just so that they could prove that they were right.
The saddest part is that everybody claims I'm always crying about being picked on, like I got my feelings hurt. Really, that isn't the case. I'm done being picked on. I'm not going to be a victim anymore, I made that decision years ago. You guys don't hurt my feelings at all. I just feel sorry for some of you because you are so narrow minded and illogical.
The best example I can give of how I feel about this.... I'm a big proponent of electric cars. But there are a lot of people out there that hate me for it. They are always attacking me telling me stupid, ridiculous things such as "your electric car pollutes more than my Hummer because your car runs on coal." Of course, it seems logical in their mind, but when I start going over the facts when them and they start realizing how wrong they are, they sort of just start insulting me. Since they can't fight me with facts, they just start insulting me because that is the only weapon they have left. That is pretty much what happens here. When people tell me I should change my ways to be like them, and then I argue back using facts and logic, it seems the logic shortly disappear and the insults begin.
So believe me guys - when you start insulting me, then I know I'm winning an argument. If you continue to present me with facts and logic, I analyze it. If it turns out I'm wrong, then I will happily admit it. That's the kind of person I am. If you knew me better, then you'd already know that.