This one is way too close to home for me
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April 9th, 2007 03:07 AM
We moved about 3 years ago shortly after the pj's reopened. I let the kids go outside w/out me now. Your family is your responsibility. We made the move to a better area and it was worth everything and then some.Good luck,stay safe.
April 9th, 2007 03:22 AM
I was raised in rough neighborhoods but not like the ones today. In the 40s and 50s it was a few drunk fights and some burgleries but seldom a murder. It is hard to find a decent place to live so I live in the country now. I have 3 acres and a house next to a lake with a good field of fire all around, if you know what I mean. Having a gun is only part of the solution you must be aware of safety and security and try to make friends with your neighbors but don't take them to raisee. Stay away from domestic quarrelers and fighters. Mind your own business. Learn the proper use of firearms and practice monthly with them.
SI VIS PACEM, PARA BELLUM
April 9th, 2007 06:04 AM
A nice place I once lived in south Florida is now a crack house filled nightmare. Changes happen and if you think you see storm clouds on the horizon than it's probably a good move. While no place may be perfect it's nice to pick the home ground!
Glad you and the family are OK and do what you need to do for them.
If you stand up and be counted, from time to time you may get yourself knocked down. But remember this: A man flattened by an opponent can get up again. A man flattened by conformity stays down for good. ~ Thomas J. Watson, Jr.
April 9th, 2007 10:18 AM
hey beagler my neck of the woods too..if you decide to move look a few miles south... it'll be a world of change......I read about it in the paper this morning..very sad
April 9th, 2007 10:21 AM
Clue to the wise: no neighborhood is immune. Never has been. Never will be. You do what you can ... and what you can do should include the ability to defend against likely future attack, involving the planning with family, gathering of appropriate tools, preparedness, training, etc. That becomes the difference between being prey or not. Keep in mind one thing: a criminal is just a bus fare away, "good" neighborhood or not.
Originally Posted by beagler
Your best weapon is your brain. Don't leave home without it.
self defense (A.O.J.).
How does disarming
the number of victims?
Reason over Force: Why the Gun is Civilization (Marko Kloos)
NRA, SAF, GOA, OFF, ACLDN.
April 9th, 2007 10:35 AM
Just last week I came out of my apartment to go to work and distinctly heard seven to eight gunshots. A few moments later there were sirens.
This isn't what I would consider a "safe" neighborhood (I don't think those exist anymore), but I never expected gunfire.
One shot in an urban area COULD be a AD/ND.. seven or eight? Something bad happened.
I can't wait to move!
Keep your family safe. Do what you have to do.
April 9th, 2007 10:38 AM
Unless you have a "good" city government and a neighborhood that is willing to work together and you're willing to take the risks...it's time to move.
We did the same thing - moved out. Constant vandalism, knifings, shootings, cars of drug dealers waiting in our drive way, we even had somebody whose hands got cut off in a sword attack 4 blocks from our house.
No matter how much you love the old neighborhood...sometimes you just have to give it up and get out!
April 9th, 2007 10:45 AM
The Sage once said that when we marry, we give hostages to fourtune.
Your first responsibility is to your family.
Make your decision, act on it and don't second guess your decision!
"Deine Papieren bitte?" or "ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ !"
(Choose only one)
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April 9th, 2007 01:41 PM
Unfortunately truer words were never written. I live in a very crime free area but a few years ago some low life killed his girl friend (If you kill someone are they still your friend?) he drove her out to this area and killed her. We have had about 3 murders in the area in the 22 years I have lived here. Possibly more but three come to mind. Good luck to you in your hunt for a new neighborhood.
Originally Posted by ccw9mm
"Hell of a thing, killin' a man. Take away all he's got and all he's ever gonna have."
- William Munny (Clint Eastwood in the Unfrogivin)
“The graveyards are full of indispensable men.” – Napoleon Bonaparte
“My Idea of a fair fight is beating baby seals with a club”
April 9th, 2007 03:20 PM
The weird thing about the area he lives in is if you drive 10 mins north it's a big money area and if you drive 10 mins south it's the country. Me I live south. I'm the youngest guy in my town by prob 15 years. No crime to speak of. It's like going back in time a few years
April 9th, 2007 03:54 PM
Pretty much says it all.
Originally Posted by Black Knight
Good luck and stay safe out there!
fortiter in re, suaviter in modo (resolutely in action, gently in manner).
April 9th, 2007 09:32 PM
Your family is whats important and you are doing the right thing... stay safe protect your wife and child and get out... congrats on the new purchase,,,XD nice.
When the dust settles only the prepared will survive.
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remember the only thing common about common sense is that its not that common
Shoot low boys their riding Shetland ponies.
April 9th, 2007 09:39 PM
Glad you and yours are OK; sounds kind'a like a really bad area,
but what locale isn't? I live 16 miles SSW of Bombingham, ALA
crime has been rapidly spreading this way. Dumped bodies have
been found near my home also, and YES it raises red flags. We
take all kinds of precautions when away from home; especially
from dusk on. NO ONE can be too safe, just do the best you
can and go on with your life~!
April 9th, 2007 09:50 PM
You are correct about the geographics of our area. I am from the 'northern' part originally, but decided to move because we found a good house in a nice neighborhood. Over the last couple of years we have noticed many changes. We are having people knock on our door asking for money, looking for odd jobs, etc.... Actually last week some scum bag rang my door bell at 11:00pm. I can't believe he actually thought I was going to answer my door. I said a few choice words to him through my closed window and after he left I called the police. My wife and I are planning on moving down in your neck of the woods - maybe even beyond that in the next county. I agree with everyone here, you do what you need to do to protect your family. It is nice to know I have a place to vent my frustration and anger. Stay safe everyone.
April 9th, 2007 09:54 PM
I know how you feel. I have lived in the same town my whole life, except for traveling with the Corps or my previous career. We had very very little crime until recently.
we have now had a murder 3 weekends in a row, and last night I was watching the 11 o'clock news. The report told of two bodies found murdered on the side of the road in the next town over. The news people said the suspects are still at large.
When you've got 'em by the balls, their hearts & minds will follow. Semper Fi.
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