My SIL who is a leo in a nearby large city has, according to him, had all good encounters with CCL folks. On traffic stops the folks inform him about their ccw, and tell him where it is, as they are required to. He doesn't have a problem with it, as he says the ones he's especially worried about are the ones that are ccw and DON'T have a permit ! amen
He told me about only one problem, and it was about a guy that was out-of-state, they stopped for DUI, the guy was beligerent, smart-a**, making a scene, etc and he was ccw. Of course he was arrested, and probably can't ccw anymore.
The lady you described must have been a bit dumb, fueled by emotion. The guy I described was dumb, fueled by booze.