Wife Made Me & Now She Wont Talk

Wife Made Me & Now She Wont Talk

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    Wife Made Me & Now She Wont Talk

    Just one of those moments when you don't need a hug from your wife it happens. She hits something and oh boy. Ugly reaction. She never knew I carried and now she won't talk to me so I guess the couch is all mine tonight. The .45 sure hits hard.


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    She won't talk to you because you didn't trust her in knowing or because she is anti?

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    ut-oh! Now what? Hopefully you will work this out. Show her a few of the threads here showing how being proactive may save both your lives. Good Luck!
    "Brains before Bullets"

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    I'd say the couch is hers... she's the one thats mad.
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    Don't give in to her silent treatment. It's your job to protect your family how you see fit, not how SHE sees fit. Does she ask your permission or advice when she shops for bras and panties?

    If she insists you sleep on the couch for a long time, perhaps you could take a shower in the evening and go out for several hours, then come home late. She'll soon realize her bed isn't the only one in town.

    Sorry, you didn't ask for advice.

    Hope it goes well. Hope you don't give up protection for temporary peace.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grady View Post
    Don't give in to her silent treatment. It's your job to protect your family how you see fit, not how SHE sees fit. Does she ask your permission or advice when she shops for bras and panties?.
    I disagree with your view...it is after all a joint union...and the more made so, the more happiness all around. Your thoughts are draconian.

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    Next she will say your paranoid, you weren't like this before, and this is just another one of your phases. Then comes the look at all the guitars you have but never play, how about that second motorcycle you don't ride very much. Wow the list expands fast.

    She might blame some of your friends for influencing you. Then she'll come around and say well it isn't about me. That's when she will accept you for who you are and will start to understand.

    My wife doen't like the fact that if I carry I can't drink wine at dinner and she hates to drink alone. My standard answer is I don't want to hear " Sir could step out of the car?" I have the type of job that if I receive a DUI I might as well not show up on Monday. So I can be the DD/DS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bandit383 View Post
    I disagree with your view...it is after all a joint union...and the more made so, the more happiness all around. Your thoughts are draconian.

    Rick
    And I disagree with your disagreement.

    If the "joint union" can't be in agreement, someone has to make a decision. If it's about personal and family protection, that will be me.

    Feel free to disagree. Your thoughts do not impact me one bit. I'll protect my family any way I damn well please whether you or my wife agree with me or not.

    Works for me. Too bad if it doesn't work for you. If you want your wife to dictate how you do things, feel free. Not in this house.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SIXTO View Post
    I'd say the couch is hers... she's the one thats mad.
    That's how I see it too.




    You probley should've told her awhile back it sounds like though......
    "Just getting a concealed carry permit means you haven't commited a crime yet. CCP holders commit crimes." Daniel Vice, senior attorney for the Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Violence, quoted on Fox & Friends, 8 Jul, 2008

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    Quote Originally Posted by bandit383 View Post
    I disagree with your view...it is after all a joint union...and the more made so, the more happiness all around. Your thoughts are draconian.

    Rick
    If its the cost of the new .45 ACP and you didn't discuss it, that's another issue. I believe all purchases over a pre-discussed amount deserve a discussion and a financial plan (I'm a Dave Ramsey fan). If you already own the weapon and just now started carring that's another story.

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    She is just mad that I didnt tell her I carry.

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    I don't tell anyone I carry because it's not a big deal. I don't tell folks that I am wearing socks.... And I believe my pistol is on par with socks. I wear em everyday (socks and pistol) and what's the big deal?

    How long have you been carrying without detection ?

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    I am going to assume that you started carrying after you were married,correct?

    see what happens when you dont get the war department to grant you a permission slip!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cop2b View Post
    She is just mad that I didnt tell her I carry.
    Should have talked to her!! Change is tough!! She'll come around in time. She will actually forget you carry ubtil that dreadful day you need it.

    Or go to ankle carry and hope she doesn't grab on to your ankle!!

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