Fiancé completely anti-gun
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January 8th, 2009 01:20 AM
Think how both of you would feel if your lives were suddenly changed by an armed criminal assault, and she forbid you from defending your family and children. As far as I'm concerned, you have the OBLIGATION to do all you can to protect your kids and wife.
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January 8th, 2009 01:20 AM
January 8th, 2009 02:24 AM
If ye love wealth better than liberty, the tranquility of servitude better than the animating contest of freedom, go home from us in peace. We ask not your counsels or arms. Crouch down & lick the hands which feed you. May your chains set lightly upon you, & may posterity forget you were countrymen.
January 8th, 2009 03:04 PM
you guys will make it work just give it time and have patience when it comes to her.
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January 8th, 2009 03:54 PM
Another 2 cents
I have been married 29 years and there are many compromises that have to be made. What color for the carpet, where to go for dinner, many 100's of decisions to make but NEVER, NEVER on core principals or beliefs. If you continue to stick to your guns (pun intended) and continue to state you beliefs, one of two things will happen. Your girl will leave you or she will be passive-aggressive. Someone already mentioned the sulking and resentment that she will do. Unless you can win her over in a real, honest way, then keep a LOOOOOONG engagement to give her time to either come around or realize she won't change YOUR mind and she'll call it off.
If gun ownership is a macho, caveman throwback to action movies and cowboy wishful thinking, then give up the guns and marry the gal. But if the desire to protect and defend your loved ones and your self, and express your God-given liberty to KABA, then hold to your convictions and let her desire if you are worth getting over HER irrational fears. If she doesn't trust you to keep your guns and your family safe, then she doesn't trust you at all. IMHO
January 8th, 2009 04:55 PM
Congrats brother. Like I recommended stick to your principles and just stay the course. If you all are truly meant to be...you will reach a happy middle ground.
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