First of all Brady, try some spaces after a few sentences LOL That was hard to read.
People whip guns out all the time in the pawn/gun shop where I do all my business. The owner carries a S&W Sigma .40 shoved in his front pocket. People pull em out when there are LEO's in there. We all do it.
The guns are all loaded. You wanna hand it to another guy to check out? You unload it and hand it to him. He does the same. Its all quite safe really and Ive never felt that any stranger in there was unsafe of looking to do harm.
Of course I wasnt there so maybe Im missing some details but on the surface Id say, lighten up.