No I do not have similar interactions like that with my wife.
I will never nor have I ever tried to talk her into anything gun related.
She is now interested and is coming to the range on her own free will
and is looking at a nice Kimber .45.
She wants to take some classes and maybe cc class someday but I leave it entirely up to her and her pace. The moment I try to talk her into something she is not into is the moment she will solidify her will against it.