Feeling VERY threatened by a crazy person
This is a discussion on Feeling VERY threatened by a crazy person within the Concealed Carry Issues & Discussions forums, part of the Defensive Carry Discussions category; Originally Posted by Milly
Thank you all for a HUGE amount of great ideas, and for all of the really fantastic support!
To answer some ...
January 1st, 2010 02:25 PM
I, like other members have already done, would like to emphasize the following:
Originally Posted by Milly
1. Training....Train both as individuals AND together...Go through PROFESSIONAL training and also work on your scenario training with each other.
2. Milly...you obviously have an excellent and sharp mind, get your concealed weapons permit, supplement it with the TRAINING. It's good that you have the 640 in the nightstand, but it would be MUCH better to have it ON your person even when at home.
3. You and Bill develop a CODEWORD system to use in certain situations. For instance, if you are home, Bill calls, and crazy brotherinlaw is holding you at gunpoint, say something to Bill like "my day is going good Honey, but MY STOMACH HAS BEEN HURTING A LIL BIT. That phrase could let Bill know you are in trouble.
4. Ask Bill to reconsider semi-automatic weapons. As others have said, reliability has increased a 100% over the past 30 years. Professional Training will help in this area as well. Glocks are VERY reliable and the Taurus Slim has addressed the missfire situation and will allow you a second strike on that stubborn primer. Also both the Glock and the Taurus semi-automatics are very simple in operating and breakdown and cleaning. Both of you go take a look and if possible test fire them. Training will give you the confidence to overcome malfunctions that you mentioned above.
You and Bill have to depend not only on each other, but also on yourselves independently. I'd say you are well on your way to preparing, now top it off with the training...JMO...
Sometimes in life you have to stand your ground. It's a hard lesson to learn and even most adults don't get it, but in the end only I can be responsible for my life. If faced with any type of adversity, only I can overcome it. Waiting for someone else to take responsibility is a long fruitless wait.
January 1st, 2010 02:46 PM
Sorry to hear that.
I would get speedloaders over strips, as they are much faster. Revolvers are great, but the 100% reliability no matter what thing is a bit overstated in lots of cases. The short sight radius of a snubby and heavy DA trigger make it more difficult to shoot than a larger handgun. It is good in that you'll have it on you all the time most likely, but I would step up to a larger auto if I were in this situation. Everyone should be comfortable with their gun if they plan to carry it for defensive purposes so training is a great idea.
Good luck and be safe.
January 1st, 2010 02:51 PM
January 1st, 2010 03:49 PM
but since Bill's brother was on the U.S. Army Pistol team, was a highly trained ex-LEO, and was an Army Officer (he is said to be an excellent combat pistol shooter, but was dismissed from each of these positions one after the other as he became progressively more mentally ill),
Are you sure Bill's brother was truthful when he spoke about his background? I can't see him becoming a military officer after being dismissed as a LEO for a mental illness or vise versa. He might have hid a lot more about his background from his family than you realize.
Les Baer 45
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January 1st, 2010 04:29 PM
Not much more to add, but you will be in my prayers as well.
Just a couple thoughts I've had, and they may be discredited entirely by the more experienced. First, it's great you have the SD shotgun, but 15 seconds is a long time. It's much faster than dialing 911 of course, but if you're startled during the middle of the night, most people are a little dazed when they wake, and it may double that time to get the gun loaded and ready to go. I'd suggest leaving it loaded, and somewhere close but out of site. If possible, some sort of safe to have it locked but ready to release in under 5 seconds. Also, buckshot is great, but you may want to look into slugs as well for greater penetration behind walls if that is needed. Only you know what your home is like, no one else on this forum does.
Second, someone mentioned sniper as a possibility. Depending on how much you want to put into all this, may look into purchasing either an AR, or lever action deer rifle. There was another thread on here discussing how the 30-30 lever action rifle could be considered one of the first AR created. It's small enough to be used in short range situations, but can also be scoped and used for longer encounters, even if to provide cover fire.
Third, there is a thread on here, I can't remember what it's title is--others can help out, but it's basically "what have you done to defend your home." This included installing better screws to prevent doors from being kicked in easily, better shrubs, and so forth. Can anyone else link this for me? I was thinking about installing a steel/hard wood door to your bedroom and essentially turning it into a "panic room" where you can lock yourselves in if needed. Installing a better door here and locking it at night may give you extra time; and if someone starts breaking it down, then blast away with the shotgun.
Good luck and hopefully nothing will come to pass.
BLONDIE: You may run the risks, my friend, but I do the cutting. If we cut down my percentage... cigar? Liable to interfere with my aim.
January 1st, 2010 04:41 PM
A search for title=Hardening brings up the following links:
Originally Posted by uncballzer
January 1st, 2010 05:34 PM
Originally Posted by Stormtruck2
Most important post I've read thus far.
January 1st, 2010 05:40 PM
Just my thoughts:
If I were facing what you have described here:
1. Wife and I both would have shotgun close at hand at home ready to chamber and fire.
2. I would pack at least one shotgun in car ready to chamber and fire when out and about, also second hand gun in car for each of you.
3. I would place extra handgun in my house where only we knew where they are located.
4. Where ever you chose to live I would darken my windows and do the things already described here to secure my home.
5. Consider the choke points in your home, they are the best shooting points for defense. He may hire a gang or more then one to ether accompany him or accomplish his desires, therefore choke points and firepower ( extra firearms)really count..
6. Both of you should consider a lock blade folder that never leaves your touch, if he is really disarranged then he may want to get his hands on you, and up close and personal , smell his bad breath, the knife may be your best hope.
All this said and I am wondering if maybe he could have really had a change of heart and not be on the vengeance trail. I will be praying for you and him as God is the only one that can fix what is broken in your BIL.
NOT LIVING IN FEAR, JUST READY!!!
I do not love the bright sword for its sharpness,
nor the arrow for its swiftness,
nor the warrior for his glory.
I love only that which they defend.
January 1st, 2010 05:47 PM
Absolutely. This can save seconds, in reaction time. It can mean the difference between being taken by surprise and instead surprising your adversary. It can swing the encounter. Particularly if you already know for a fact that he's a marksman, a CQB type person and well-trained by occupation, you'll need every advantage you can get.
Originally Posted by Stormtruck2
Yup. My siggy line refers to this most-important aspect:
Your mind set is the most crucial component of your survival. REFUSE TO DIE! REFUSE TO LOSE!
Your best weapon is your brain. Don't leave home without it.
Meaning, it's important to have a strong mindset and mental prep; to keep your head during an encounter; to think quickly, continually and outside of the box. If you fail to do these things against a stronger adversary, you're very likely to lose.
January 1st, 2010 05:47 PM
The good thing about forums like this is that everyone brings a different perspective or view point to the table. We all have as our goal the protection and defense of our families and ourselves, how we get there may be different. What works for one may or may not work for another. There is alot of great info here. I would like to say that before you talk to local law enforcement you consult with an attorney. Some police personnel can get things messed up and turn things around to the point you would think that you are the bad guy. Document everything and send copies to your attorney. Work toward your safety and don't concern yourself with what others think.
January 1st, 2010 06:11 PM
Thanks again guys for more great info! I'm giving all of this to my husband Bill so he too can digest it.
Originally Posted by Supertac45
Hi Supertac45; Yes, Bill's brother's professional history is not a figment of his twisted imagination, as so much else is in his warped life (for instance, he now thinks (no, he knows) that he is a Doctor of Medicine, all because he mail ordered a doctorate from a diploma mill for $300!!).
He was first an Army Officer, then on their shooting team (pistol), then after about 10 years in the military he was unwillingly, but honorably, discharged for reasons that he never would disclose to us. Then he became a LEO in a small town, where he was finally fired after many years on the force as a street cop (again, for reasons he would not disclose). Throughout this entire period of many years he just seemed to get crazier and angrier, and age never improves such things!
January 1st, 2010 06:23 PM
This is scary business. Definitely get local and federal law enforcement into the loop regarding your fears.
Does Bill have other siblings besides the brother in question? Are they closer geographically to him and on better terms? Can they give insight into his mindset and intentions?
He's already contacted one of your friends. Make sure all of your friends "back home" know that information about you is not to be disclosed.
January 1st, 2010 06:49 PM
Lots of good advice. I would like to add that, if you and your husband are sold on revolvers, several companies make 7 and 8 shot revolvers, some of them lightweight (S&W). They can be set up to use with moon clips which are a very fast reload.
This thread got me to thinking about my brother who I'm sure is mentally ill. I haven't spoke with him since 1991 but I know he blames everyone else for his problems. After reading this thread, even though it's probably a long shot, I'm going to start doing some things differently as he's only one state away. Good wake up call for me.
January 1st, 2010 10:36 PM
I'm sorry that you and your husband have to go though a situation like this. Your family is in my prayers.
I've noticed a couple people mentioned filing for protection orders. If that is a route you plan to go, make sure you know the laws associated with that. I know that in my area (I don't know if it is different anywhere else, someone else might be able to help) when a protection order is filed for, you are given a temporary PO however, once it is served to the other party you will meet that person in court for the judge to decide whether or not to issue. That could cause problems if you don't want him to find you.
January 2nd, 2010 07:48 AM
Sorry for your troubles.
My input along with everyone else here;
1. 15 seconds to have a HD Shotgun ready to go is 14.5 seconds too long. Fine if you want to lock it up when you are away, but IMO it should be hot, accessible, and ready in all respects anytime you are home.
2. Motion lights both inside (seriously) and out.
3. Your SO needs to get over his conceptions on semi auto pistols. Practice, practice, practice. Even if you do encounter a failure, 99% of them can be cleared as fast as a wheel gun rotating to the next round. Wheel guns are not infallible either. Get a stuck case or even a stubborn one that resists dropping out of the cylinder during a reload... On a real bad day, I'd rather get 9 shots out of 14 in my .40 auto than 5 + a reload on a revolver.
My sympathies go out to you. A "not right in the head" convicted felon is released and on the streets, and now you and yours have to live like prisoners. No good can come from this.
Grasseater // Grass~eat~er noun, often attributive \ˈgras-ē-tər\
A person who is incapable of independent thought; a person who is herd animal-like in behavior; one who cannot distinguish between right and wrong; a foolish person.
See also Sheep
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