I wouldn't worry about desiring to not have gear "pressing on her" while there. I'm sure the two of you won't even notice. So long as you're concealed, it shouldn't be a problem.
Consider pocket carry, if concerned about "printing" or "pressing." That should sidestep both concerns. A Kahr PM9, KelTec PF9, S&W .38/.357 revolver or similar should do the trick.
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