I need a recommendation on a 9mm or 380 with the least amount of recoil in a subcompact size. Weight is not an issue, size is. I am thinking that the best choice may be something like a Sig 232 or 238. Or maybe a Walther PPK...unless there is a polymer framed subcompact with less felt recoil than the steel?
Having a firearm that is least punishing to my wife would be a good first step to encourage her to carry.