My brother-in-law wants to buy my XDm from me. He's a real good guy and I'm more that willing to help him out. As for me, I love everything about my XDm but the size. I like the safeties, the grip fits perfectly and I can shoot the lights out with it. It is a slight chore to conceal though. Don't get me wrong, I carry every day and can conceal under as little as a t-shirt but I also often long for a smaller pistol system. So what's out there? I know a lot of people are, but I'm not a big Glock fan. I was thinking EMP. I want to stay with .40. I also don't want my pinky off the end of the grip. There's not much that bugs me more than a grip that I can't actually grip. I wish SA made a true compact XDm.