After lots of thinking and some great advise from some members her I finally settled on my latest purchase. I had a couple of deals fall through on trading my XDM for a M&P and selling my XD9 out right. As of today as much as I liked both of my XD's they are gone. I picked up a Colt 80series stainless 1911 because I just love the 1911 can't help it and for EDC I picked up a M&Pc 45. I can't wait to get them both to the range and see if I am happy with my choices. I need to stop changing guns so much though! I didn't get hurt on the price but now I have 1000 rounds of 9mm and don't have one to shoot them from, oh well I am sure I will have a 9mm in something soon enough.
here are some pictures of the new toys still at work so I didn't get any good ones yet.