I'm new to defensivecarry.com and really happy to have found it. There is so much great info here! I plan to start carrying full time, well not in the shower, and I also plan to purchase a new gun. I have a hypothetical question that will help me narrow down my choices. Here goes...
Hypothetical: You can only own one handgun. You plan to carry it, concealed, full time (again sans shower.) It must have the lightest recoil possible that you are "comfortable" with. Comfortable, in this case, means that this handgun would give you piece of mind as a reliable self-defense weapon. What is your handgun given these parameters?
If this type of hypothetical question is frowned upon here please just ignore me. I haven't seen anything here to suggest that, but so far I've mostly just been drooling over all the gun & rig pics this site has.