My wife got one last week also. I was amazed how little recoil it has. I am glad she got 9mm as opposed to .40 cal. I heard the .40 kicks pretty badly.
She also got the pinky extension. But we didn't get one for the other magazine, as it makes it harder to conceal for pocket, and Smartcarry. But great for OWB, and some IWB.
She also has a Bluegrass OWB holster coming next week...just thought maybe I should get him to make a pocket holster also.