When you carry for the first time, you swear the whole world knows it, and knows every lump on you is a weapon and stares you down. As you do it more, you realize that you could stuff a 12 gauge shotgun down your pant leg, and 99% of the sheep will never see it. I've graduated from pizzant .380's to single stack 9's, to .38's to double stack 9's to .40's. No one sees squat. Frankly, I could care less anymore if I "print". Concealed means concealed. I'm legal, I'm legal, and I'm legal. No one has ever questioned me. Carry the thing at 3 o'clock, the safest position at all times and easiest draw. Buy a nice button down shirt one size too large. Invest in a decent belt (western wear stores $30). Learn your laws. Read a little on the subject. Enjoy being in a position to defend your life instead of relying on the untimely assistance of the authorities.