I need some suggestions as I bought an XDs .45 and now my wife has taken possession of the little gun. I am now looking for a holster that she can carry SOB. She is 5'0 and petite. About 110-115 lbs. She kind of frowns about putting a make shift holster at 3 o-clock. Says that people look at the bust and waist line of a woman and having a gun there in the waist line she feels that she'll print. I'd like the small of back to be used by me as well...or a holster that is designed by women for women. I'm looking at the flashbang and I don't know how she feels about putting a gun underneath her breast. I'm also looking at the 3 speed holster too. Any ladies out there that would like to jump in here would be great.