tacman605...Let me see if I can help some folks out by simply going over the minimal training that I do...Then perhaps some will be able to relate and give an honest answer.
1. Dry fire (to attempt to perfect trigger control and muscle memory for such), practice draw and presentation (to make sure that IF the time comes that I need to present my weapon in a SD situation, I can do so simply because I've practiced. This practice includes my cover garment. There is no need to practice draw and presentation unless you do so in the same way you would be carrying IF the SHTF) , practice draw and presentation incorporating movement (again, with cover garment, but this time getting off the X while drawing, presenting, gaining sight picture). All of this can be safely done in your living room, garage, back yard, wherever...And, best of all, it's cheap, and doesn't require any money whatsoever, only an investment of time...
2. I watch videos of the "experts" in concealed carry and self defense. I listen and try to absorb their knowledge as they lecture/demonstrate. Sometimes pausing the video in order to do (dryfire) what they have just gone over. The only ones that look at me strangely would be my wife, if she's around, and the dogs. But, the dogs are used to it!
3. I read. Books written my those in the know. Massad Ayoob, Gabe Suarez, etc. Books such as On Combat and On Killing by Grossman. Books like Surgical Speed Shooting by Stanford and Principles of Personalf Defense by Cooper. There is MUCH information to be gleaned, especially on mindset, technique, etc. Then use what you've gleaned to improve yourself.Things such as Mindset, Situational Awareness and Tactics can be presented in books to the point that YOU can understand the concept and practice from there. The same with videos.
4. Range time. I'm fortunate that I am a member of a lil country range, run bye good ole boys, that allows me to not only punch holes, but to move and shoot. For those that can't move and shoot, then master punching the holes with accuracy. IF you can draw and shoot, do that. IF you can't draw, then go from low ready to firing position etc. Remember, practice your scans...F.A.S.T (Fight-take care of business, Assess-is the threat stopped, Scan-do you need to shoot anyone else, TopOff-prepare and make sure you have reloaded for the next emergency) MANY folks fail to remember to scan. This can be done when dryfiring in your home, on a range, etc. Always try to scan 360, but at a minimum 180 if your range doesn't allow a 360.
5. Professional Training. I try to participate in some kind of professional training a minimum of once a year. I encourage EVERYONE who has not had professional training, to make every effort to save up, pick up cans and sell em, but get the money to take some professional training from a reputable school/instructor. It doesn't always have to be from the same school. There is an advantage to experiencing training with different instructors. Then incorporate what you've learned to fit your style. Just approach any and all training with an OPEN MIND. Do it their way when you train with them! Who knows, it might be better than your way.
6. Medical knowledge. How many of you have a basic medical kit to take to the range, to keep in your vehicle? How many can use the items in it? How many of you have considered taking a medical course to improve your knowledge?
7. Your gear. Do you keep it in top notch condition? Do you clean your weapon after using it?
Do you evaluate what you carry, why you carry it, and do you need anything else or are you carrying too much? What do others carry, and why do they carry it, and could it help you?
Folks, if you keep your eyes and ears open you can learn much. Just reading on these forums can help. Try googling some of the better know instructors that have videos on you tube. Watch some of their videos. Learn from them.
I guess I've ranted enough...JMO