Thanks for the replies everyone. Part of the reason for asking these materials questions is to decipher the different options out there. I have been looking at semi-auto pistols from S&W, Sig, Springfield and FNH, but won't buy anything until I get a chance to shoot a variety of different options. There is a range near work that rents, but I can't go until I get the FOID.
Since some of you mentioned training, my girlfriend and I are signed up for the NRA Basic Pistol Shooting Course which happens in about 5 weeks. The instructor already contacted us and seems very nice.
cn262 mentioned having plans for home defense which sounds like a good idea and I will do some research on how to be safe when living with a family away from town. I am really looking forward to the chance to get a "real" dog again. I always felt safer when I had two dogs.

