I have been looking for some counter to the "turn the other cheek" and "thou shale not kill" responses to self defense.
I think I have found what I was looking for.
A Biblical Framework: Self Defense and Christianity, Part 1
I am not well versed, but it seamed to me that much of the argument was just a bit off level of what was written in the bible. these 4 pages explain what I knew but could not find. I hope someone else finds this helpful.