I personally would have let him ask the question but would have kept my safe distance of 8-12 feet when talking to an unknown person. I have had the homeless ask me for money and sometimes I have given it to them sometimes not, and when I haven't which is most of the time. I say I am sorry but I don't have any to give. In this situation if my weapon was not on me I would not have reached into the car and holstered it in front of him, but again that's me