
Originally Posted by
Bark'n
I'll tell you what you can accomplish if you put your mind to it using my nephew as an example.
My nephew was a high school drop out. Very intelligent kid, but going no where fast. Being a high school drop out, he had some delinquency, but never an arrest or run in with the police. He actually burned his mothers house down playing around with an aerosol can and a lighter when he was about 14. Stole his mothers car once and crashed it into a tree. We all knew he was headed no where fast.
Well, he always talked big, one day he was going to be a doctor (his dad was a paramedic), Next week he was going to be a helicopter pilot. You know the kind of talk. Big and grandiose. But he always worked hard with a good work ethic.
Well, before he got into any serious trouble, he "got his mind right" all on his own. I actually had a few "heart to heart" talks with him on occasion, but I take no credit for what he's done with his life. He's done all on his own.
He got his GED, then attended community college. Worked menial jobs because of no education just to get by. As soon as he got a college degree, he went and talked with the Army. Scored well, entered the Army National Guard as a Second Lieutenant because of his degree. As soon as he had that "Officers status" in the National Guard, he got hired as a Metro Bus driver in Kansas City, earning decent union wages with insurance and benefits.
From there he got sent to Intelligence school, but he always said he wanted to fly helicopters. I don't know how he swung it, but he got accepted into the Aviator program and learned to fly the UH-1 Huey.
He always loved Arizona so he moved to Arizona and transferred to the AZ National Guard where he learned to fly Apache helicopters. While living in AZ, he applied, and got accepted to the U.S. Border Patrol. After 3 years in Border Patrol in the Naco, AZ sector, his Guard unit went to A-Stan for a year where he flew Apache's and was the squadron's logistics officer. By then he was a 1st Lieutenant.
After returning to the States, he had enough time in with the Border Patrol to transfer off the southern border and transferred to the Canadian Border. While he loved Arizona, he was disillusioned with how the Agents Compean and Ramos were scapegoated for doing their jobs. Moral in the Border Patrol was pretty low. This was actually happening just prior to his A-Stan deployment. Returning from his A-Stan tour, he got transferred to the Canadian Border but the work there was too slow and boring for what he was used to on the southern border.
Presently, he's now a Captain in the Army National Guard and still an Aviator. He's since left the Border Patrol, getting a lateral transfer into another Federal LE Agency. I believe he's in ICE now, but I haven't spoken with him for a while.
He's thinking of having the Army send him to Physician's Assistant school because medicine is kind of "family business" but basically, at 39 years of age, his options are still wide open.
Needless to say, the family is more than just a little surprised at how the boy's turned out.
So, if you have the drive and desire, a lot of doors can open up for you. And a good way to open those doors is through the Military.
Good luck in your future.