Here is the story. My mother in law lives with us. Wife cares for her as she has both diabetes and dimentia. She is 90 years old and is now receiving some benefits from the VA (medicine mostly). The VA assigned her a social worker and the first visit was today. Many reasonable questions were asked but one question got me concerned. she wanted to know if we have any weapons in the house. we said NO. which was a bald face lie but I just was not prepared for that question and did not feel it was any of her blank business. What do you all think?