Sounds like she's going for those pretty-boys that are players... Not all us guys are bad (although we may just look like the average Ralph). The average guys offer a stable relationship, always there, helpful and protective, yet allow you to have that freedom for some independent types. Sounds like her expectations are set on that one type that's destined to let her down and lots of wemen actually go back/are drawn to that type. Us average guys also don't like playing the games, have seen them before and like fishing, are patient enough to just wait around for a better fish... If she's not comfortable "talking" with a person and if they can't make her laugh or feel at ease...probably best move along...don't want that trapped feeling in you're relationship. There's someone she probably knows...maybe an average Ralph and a close friend she talks with every week that's waiting...maybe he's not asked her out because he's seeing that she's fixated in on these pretty-boy types or someone that has to be the center of attention.