DefensiveCarry I need your help!
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August 14th, 2008 12:22 PM
August 14th, 2008 07:42 PM
I am with the keep your name crowd. It is not only traditional in our culture but it is normal. I know of no one who has changed his name because of marriage.
As to whether a woman not changing her name shows a lack of commitment, I can only say that my ex-wife did not change her name and she provided irrefutable evidence of her lack of commitment.
August 14th, 2008 08:03 PM
WOW never knew how serious this was. OKAY I'm keeping the name.
“Are you a thermometer or a thermostat, do you reflect or become what is happening in the room or do you change the atmosphere, reset the temperature when you come into the room”?--Chuck Swindoll
Its not about guns...Its about Freedom!
August 14th, 2008 08:07 PM
Bur Rod is a paratrooper. Therefore, he gets infinity bonus points...
Originally Posted by atctimmy
A man fires a rifle for many years, and he goes to war. And afterward he turns the rifle in at the armory, and he believes he's finished with the rifle. But no matter what else he might do with his hands - love a woman, build a house, change his son's diaper - his hands remember the rifle.
August 14th, 2008 08:58 PM
I think that purposely rejecting a harmless tradition by keeping your maiden name or hyphenating does suggest that a woman is making a special point about her individuality in a relationship that I believe should be a union. The same thing would be suggested about a man if the tradition were for him to take his wife's name. Of course, it's only a suggestion and separate from the truth, but that is my first thought when I see the hyphen. Just as my first thought when I see someone wearing a wedding ring is that they must be married. It is only a symbol, though.
Originally Posted by rodc13
As far as your view on every person being an individual entity... I guess I'm old fashioned enough to still remember an old phrase:
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
August 14th, 2008 10:22 PM
Fair enough. I surrender.
Originally Posted by OPFOR
"For the Lord your God will bless you in all your harvest and in all the work of your hands." Deuteronomy 16:15
August 15th, 2008 09:03 AM
It at least means I always obey the law . . . of gravity . . .
Originally Posted by OPFOR
"We're paratroopers. We're supposed to be surrounded!" Dick Winters