Funny, my wife blatantly disregards my advice on how to do *anything*, to the point of doing just about *everything* the hard way, just to refuse to acknowledge that I think & operate at an extreme level of efficiency. BUT, when it comes to tactical awareness she follows my lead with great instinct. Could be because of my level of training, or because I have pointed out SO many situations that she was totally Condition White to. Or, she might have accepted it because of the way I handled the situation when we awoke at 3am to the sound of a "click" from our front door, followed by the creaking sound that the hinges make when it is opened slowly.