Tricolordad, it's clear that you've made up your mind to confront this issue regardless of opinion. Best wishes in that endeavor. Like a similar saying previously, I say "Make decision; live with the consequences." Hopefully your child won't suffer them.
I think you've answered your original question. Stick to your morals.
Originally Posted by tricolordad
I think we can call this thread done. TriColor, do feel free to post a new thread with an update but I think we're now effectively re-hashing the same stuff over and over again.