There's a saying I heard recently that I have since fallen in love with.
You can choose your actions, but you cannot choose the consequences of those actions.
Yes, everything is speculation at this point. But it's very clear that there certainly could be some consequences to your actions. If you do as you say you are going to do (i.e. write a letter and have a sit down talk and threaten them with removing your daughters because of their request) then you are upping the stakes yourself.
(But, honestly, if the program is as bad as you say, and your daughter's mean as much to you as you say and you seem to have no concerns about moving them why did you enroll them in an under-rated program to begin with?)
The lady made a simple request. You can read into her demeanor anyway you want but the fact is that this was still just a simple request that you can choose to ignore.
I think that in society there does have to be some hardlines drawn as to what you will and will not accept but I also think there needs to be some give and take on the grey-matter issues. Only you can decide that for yourself. But as stated, this has potential to go ways that are very problematic for you...
In my opinion, however, you are thinking of this pretty selfishly. It's all about you and what you can and/or can't do.
But if everything goes south your girls have to move to a different school, lose some friends, maybe a policy gets written that forbids carry on buses limiting other people's rights.. all because you couldn't put a shirt on.
As I said, you can choose your actions, but not the consequences and, no, I do not think this is a hill worth dying on. But that's me.
Now I will pause so that people can tell me how anti-gun I am.
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