Check out the CorneredCat site (
http://corneredcat.com/Holster/straighttalk.aspx) and LimaTunes' posts here. They have great information on women's carry.
FWIW, I hear that sometimes IWB carry is awkward, given the curves. OTOH, shoulder rigs are often recommended and work well with jackets. But check out those two. I am just a guy, and as all women know, we really don't know much at all.
