Take a look at this page on Matt's site.
CLICK HERE - Holsters Designed For Females
Matt is one of the finest holster makers on the planet.
Be prepared to wait about two birthdays for a rig.
One other option for you - (since wearing bulky or extra clothing in order to cover up a firearm) in your area makes you look obviously "out of place" would be to switch to the smallest 9mm available. That would be the Rohrbaugh 9mm.
The Rohrbaugh is a very high quality tiny 9mm that you'll carry often but, it is not a real picnic to actually shoot.
Everything is a compromise and when the size of the firearm goes down and the caliber stays the same then the handgun becomes less fun to shoot.
The Rohrbaugh is also not cheap (priced at a thousand bucks) but, it's in your preferred caliber and is extremely high quality. It is also incredibly easy to conceal.
Well, those are my suggestions.
