Send me your CQC/S, that will relieve some of your pain.
Seriously, I have "bad" carry days sometimes. Sometimes I just can't seem to get things comfortable no matter what I do. I have found that the Perry suspenders help (even with a gun belt) to keep things up. It also enables you to loosen your belt a little bit. I got mine at Wally World for about $7 IIRC.