Thanks all for your views, i appreciate it. Just so you know the PM45 shoots very well
i figured it would kill your hand but ill be honest i shot 150 rounds out of it the first day (now have just over 300 rounds downrange) with NO problems & believe it or not my wifes PM9 is harder on me to shoot, i have 4 friends that have shot both our PM9 & PM45 & they like the 45 better as well, except for my wife she likes how the 9 shoots better
for us its because the 9 is too small (she does have little hands) & you cant grab it, the 45 seems to fit nicely & recoil is not nearly what i thought it would be actually its quite smooth
Oh by the way i got a Hogue Handall Jr on mine (makes a tremendous difference) & Trijicon "novak style" night sights & iam carrying Federal HST's in the magazine of course
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1. Keep your finger off the trigger.
2. Keep your d*** finger off the trigger.
3. Keep your d*** finger off the d*** trigger.