Hi TD,
If you haven't seen it yet, there's a good forum available for women - called
Women & Guns, hosted by the magazine by the same name.
Some of the ladies there have posted pics about how they conceal without changing their normal attire all that much .
I originally used AIWB (2 o'clock) postion, but the problem with it was drawing when seated position - especially in the car with the seatbelt in the way. I have transferred my primary carry position to IWB crossdraw from about 11:00.