hardluk1, I bought the bellyband from CanCan for my wife and she has never used it. Tried it once and said, no. Yet, when we go to the range, she uses a AIWB Kydex holster with the Ulticlip from the Gun Goddess and likes it. She hasn't said "no" yet to using it for carry, but she hasn't tried it yet, either.
My wife would never have bought the P365 by herself. She just doesn't keep up on what's available or read the reviews. However, when we went to SHOT I had her pick up and try the trigger on the P365 and she really liked it. I paid for the pistol and all the accessories, but the pistol belongs to her. I consider it a small price to pay for her security.