Hi guys,
My daughter has hooked up with a gentleman who is claiming to have been in the Navy and the Army and had two helicopter accidents and is now a disabled vet.
He has talked her into marrying him, but he has not put her on his military insurance. I understand that there is a 60 day period where he should be filing paperwork to get her on it (It's something like Triton). He made her quit her job and claims they put all their stuff in storage in Oregon because a crazy roommate threatened them. He said he'd be buying his own car but has not. He was going to take them on a trip to Europe and Africa and now I find out he's got claustrophobia and is (allegedly) afraid to fly. That makes no sense.
Her mother claims she knows this guy is legit, but she's lied before and my daughter's past 'fiances' have lied before.
He does not look like a vet, he makes her drive him and doesn't own a car, and long story short made her take a train to Las Vegas to get married then said he'd fly back and reneged after she bought a ticket to fly home and made her drive for three days straight to get back to her job.
IOW, he may be legit, but short of hiring a PI, is there a way I can give someone a full name and they can check if he has a service record and if he's just using her to get to me since she's my only heir.
I'm kind of at my wit's end, and they now want me to babysit his kids from another wife and are angry that I won't take him at his word.
This is the right forum for this. I looked on the site where you can check and you have to be a family member. I just know location of birth, (Hawaii) and first, last and middle initial.
He's posted one picture of him in uniform (from a distance) and no other guys in it, him standing on a tank.
Thanks and sorry to be a bother.
My daughter has hooked up with a gentleman who is claiming to have been in the Navy and the Army and had two helicopter accidents and is now a disabled vet.
He has talked her into marrying him, but he has not put her on his military insurance. I understand that there is a 60 day period where he should be filing paperwork to get her on it (It's something like Triton). He made her quit her job and claims they put all their stuff in storage in Oregon because a crazy roommate threatened them. He said he'd be buying his own car but has not. He was going to take them on a trip to Europe and Africa and now I find out he's got claustrophobia and is (allegedly) afraid to fly. That makes no sense.
Her mother claims she knows this guy is legit, but she's lied before and my daughter's past 'fiances' have lied before.
He does not look like a vet, he makes her drive him and doesn't own a car, and long story short made her take a train to Las Vegas to get married then said he'd fly back and reneged after she bought a ticket to fly home and made her drive for three days straight to get back to her job.
IOW, he may be legit, but short of hiring a PI, is there a way I can give someone a full name and they can check if he has a service record and if he's just using her to get to me since she's my only heir.
I'm kind of at my wit's end, and they now want me to babysit his kids from another wife and are angry that I won't take him at his word.
This is the right forum for this. I looked on the site where you can check and you have to be a family member. I just know location of birth, (Hawaii) and first, last and middle initial.
He's posted one picture of him in uniform (from a distance) and no other guys in it, him standing on a tank.
Thanks and sorry to be a bother.