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I realize this isn't a new topic but this is a slightly different iteration.

I just watched a YouTube video in which the YouTuber tells us he's shopping at Walmart with his family when he notices two people (random couple not thugs) following him. Eventually he asks them if there's something he can help them with and they tell him they noticed the bulge and were trying to figure out it was a gun or not. He tells them it's a colostomy bag and that's the end of the video.

Assuming the story is true and not something he made up for channel content his efforts at concealment had to be pretty damned lackadaisical to have drawn that much attention to himself. In this guy's case I have to ask myself (and I did ask him) if he cared enough to lie why not care enough to properly conceal the gun? (I'm sure he's going to block me from his channel) ETA he didn't block me but he's a little butthurt with me.

That I'm absolutely positive of I've been "made" exactly once. I bent down to get something off the floor and someone behind me noticed (or really thought I had a cute butt) and gave me a thumbs up. That's the only time I'm aware of that anyone has ever "caught" me.

I don't think I make any unreasonable effort to conceal my gun. Quality belt, quality holster, dress around the gun, the basics and it's mostly worked.

So my question is barring a major wardrobe malfunction do people get "made" that frequently? Is it really a thing?

I mentioned this to my wife just now but we were at her sister's house one day and her (my wife's) daughter was there with her crackhead husband. At some point during the day he leaned over the coffee table and his shirt rode up his back far enough to expose a Glock 17 sticking out of his ass crack. I don't think anyone but me noticed it. So maybe people really are oblivious.
 

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People who carry themselves are the ones most likely to spot others who do but people in general are oblivious.
I don't know if it is so much oblivious as it is not knowing what to look for, and not caring enough to figure it out.
 

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People who carry themselves are the ones most likely to spot others who do but people in general are oblivious.
In that specific instance it wasn't a tell, it was the actual gun growing out of his ass.

I don't know if it is so much oblivious as it is not knowing what to look for, and not caring enough to figure it out.
So imagine how obvious the YouTube guy must have been
 

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I've never been asked. No one has ever made a comment.

On the other hand, I think I've 'made' a few people carrying concealed on occasion. I never say anything or ask. So I'm guessing that I, too, may have been spotted in the past, and the observer has been equally discreet.

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I don't go out of my way to determine if someone is conceal carrying. Sometimes I don't even notice that someone is open carrying right away. I guess my SA skills suck. Or you could say that it doesn't freak me out. Besides, how often does the presence of a firearm become a problem? The vast majority of gun owners are mentally OK. Otherwise there would be a lot more dead people than there is. Too bad there are a lot of bad/unsafe drivers also. From what I've observed, there are far more unsafe drivers than there are unsafe gun owners. Look at just parking lots during the peak of the shopping day and you'll see people driving the wrong way and, more likely, speeding. 20+ MPH in a parking lot is something to watch out for. Just watching how people move their shopping carts makes me wonder about their driving skills. I'm surprised there aren't more vehicle deaths than there are.
 
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As far as I know, I've never been made. I make sure I dress appropriately. The only tell that I'm aware of is after getting up, I straighten the back of my shirt. If I have been made while cc, no one has said anything to me.

ETA: I think Its more along the lines of people are either oblivious, or they may spot something, but have no clue what it is. Most people are not curious enough about other people's middle sections for it to be spotted to even worry about it.
 

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I don't know if it is so much oblivious as it is not knowing what to look for, and not caring enough to figure it out.
In my case, I just don’t care enough to look for it.
 

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My point isn't so much if people who know what to look for spot you as it is how poorly do you have to be concealing before some random soccer mom figures it out?
Gotcha. Well, I think that it would have to be pretty poor concealing job, or, due to unforeseen circumstances, some accidentally gives you a bump check and discovers it.
 
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I've only been "made" one time, and I perform music in front of lots of people several nights a week. I am very careful to deep conceal so as not to offend or scare non-gun people in a crowded restaurant/bar. The guy who made me was an undercover LEO -- I can spot 'em in a crowd. Our eyes met, and he gave a slight smile and nodded his head once. End of story.
 

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People who know I carry (such as my wife) don't seem to know when I am carrying so I guess I'm doing it right. I have had the impression at work a few times that I was spotted but nobody has even said anything. I made changes to try to prevent that.
 

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I've never been "tagged" or approached by anyone, not in all the years I've carried. I've been in convenience stores in front of LEO's, Wally World, Bass Pro, and have been stopped by Bass Pro LEO security because my boots security tag wasn't removed and set off the alarm. Twice! Zero, "Do you have a gun"? I guess my concealed OWB carry is okay despite a slight bulge. My carry guns are full sized, mostly a P226, or a P30LS. No pocket guns or other diminutive substitutes for me, therefore, I Don't fret getting noticed. Now maybe if I were in a Dunkin Doughnuts... (jk). Geez, some people are overly paranoid!
 

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If you appendix carry, people are less likely to see it because alot of people don't purposefully stare at your junk. And if they ask about any bulge there, there is a whole myriad of comebacks you can hit them with.
"Excuse me. Is that a Springfield Champion .45 in Stainless, with Trijicon night sights and Ed Brown Tactical thumb safety in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?"
 
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