Welcome Amitalou!
I don't think you will have any problem with the 'guys' accepting you as a guest, then later propose you become a member where you say you might start shooting. Interest in firearms, especially defensive shooting, is almost a universal language that doesn't bar gender, ... at least from my experience. Anyone who steps forward to take the responsibility to learn self defense with firearms is one less "Condition White" those of us will someday have to protect. Also, when someone approaches 'us' for assitance in learning, we would fail in our responsibilities to our legacy if we didn't leave tomorrow better than today. You will undoubtedly receive much help when you visit the shooting club as well as your questions here, ... there are allot more knowledgeable folks here than I, but I will do what I can when I can to help you! If you can, ... find a copy of Jeff Cooper's 'Colors of Mental Conditions' either in a book or video format. As a young Police Officer in AZ many years ago, this information was invaluable for me either on-duty or off. If you have young ones, you owe it to them to obtain this info as you carry concealed. Col. Cooper's lessons pretty much spells out how we humans walk about our daily lives making choices - whether to be defenseless or defenders. I wish you the best of luck!!! Visit often and comment likewise!!!