My wife would never ask...she just has to look to see if I'm wearing pants.:yup:
We have some friends who would never want to have a gun around (they're entitled to their thinking), but when we go out for dinner and have to walk a ways through the downtown area, I have had the friend's wife ask, "Do you have your gun with you?"...and I reply, "Yes, like I always do.", and she'll say, "Good!".
Funny how some people don't want anything to do with a firearm, but feel comfortable when 'at times', there is one around.