I got my beltman this past saturday and have been wearing it since. Its a horsehide WITHOUT the stiffener. I feel like this is possibly a really dumb thing to ask, but I will anyways because its bugging me. Mine is getting really flimsy in the front especially where the buckle prong holes are (where I bend and cinch it down). I know its going to wear some in that spot, But is it normal for it to actually get pretty flimsy there? I really like it other than that spot getting flimsy. Kinda wishing Ida got the stiffener.