I areee with Armored.. Let HER pick it out.........see what she thinks about it's weight, feel a,d how it's going to handle in her hands. Personally, I LOVE the P7, and so does my wife. very easy to get into a cocked position <squeze away> and de-cock it as easily. You can find the Police trades being imported now, for cheaper money, and they're as good as a new one too. One added Benifit to the P7 is the fact of being able to disarm the weapon, by removing the firing pin assy from the rear <you need the tool> but this also serves as a defense against "having a unsecured weapon around the house" You can leave a round in the chamber, full mag in the weapon, and sueeze til the cows come home, and nothing will happen.
Like K&K says "In a World of Compromise, some don't" I have a few P7's and a lot of other stuff also.........BUT SHE has to make the decision. If she doesn't like what you get for her, she'll not carry it.