I've had many S'fields in 9mm and .45.....XD, XDe, XDm, Mod 2 and have NEVER had an issue with any of them after thousands of rounds. I had the XDm Compact 3.8, but not the Elite. Very good gun. I carry a Sig P365 at work every day because I can hide it easily, but after work or on the weekend it'll be the 4" Mod 2 9mm. 17+1 and 2-16 rd mags on the hip will suffice, I do believe. I've had many Glocks in 19, 26 and 30, 30s and 30sf. Glocks are fine guns, too, but in the "feel" department for me they score quite low and their stock trigger sucks vs the stock S'field trigger. The only compact 9 that steals any carry time from the 4" Mod 2 is my CZ PCR. Hey, some folks will never like S'field, just like some folk will never like Trump. So be it.......
Oh, and the XDe 3.3" .45 that I have is the softest shooting .45 I've ever had. Those would include .45 by Glock, Walther, Para, XD45, Shield and Kimber. Really nice SA trigger on the XDe, too.